Thanks Retha for being my champion
When I moved here, several people in the immediate vacinity of my house came to my door and welcomed me and my son ( or should I say sons at the time). It was something out of Mayberry. That's what I thought of this wonderful "Association". Then whilst in the air of trying to restore this old house, it went from Mayberry to everyone constantly in someone's business. I am totally about keeping the neighborhood looking nice. It benefits everyone. However, take a look at the complaining. The bickering because someone makes an opinion. This isn't the friendly community I envisioned.. The point I am trying to make is some things aren't even worth it and when has the bylaws and rules gone to far. You may say "oh, I obey the rules they should too", but what happened to the dream about owning your own home so you could enjoy it the way you wanted. It seems like I don't own my own home, the neighborhood does. And if I don't own my own home no one else in this association does either. Think about that. I have got an Association or should I say complainers, telling me how long I should take on cutting trees down, or putting up a fence or building a garage. They aren't paying for it or doing the work, but someone is there complaining about it.. As soon as I got a warning on the tree limbs and stumps in my front yard, my immediate neighbors cleared my front yard of wood from view and put all the very large stumps in my back yard. Not one person who complained about the tree removal offered to help. What if I have to be out of town for a couple of weeks because of an emergency at my home in New England, my grass gets to long . I would come home to a fine. The community is quick to make assumptions, complaints etc. Without even knowing what is going on. This community is becoming a place of control not happiness. People are walking around trying to see what next to complain about. Stop thinking about petty rules. Like the example I was making, really, what does it matter if my RV is 2 feet in front of my house.....who does it hurt. I could move it back and block the way to get my garbage cans out then have to move the RV but that is the point I am making, who does it hurt. You can still see it 2 ft back. It is petty stuff that drives a wedge between the neighborhood. Get to know your neighbors instead of walking around and judging. I love my immediate neighbors, I would do anything to help them, however if they see something out of place they ask me about it or they cut my grass (thanks Retha). That is a true home owners association. It is not just about complaining and taxing us for something we are not getting. It should be about caring above all. America is built on one community at a time. We should be setting a better example.