Maybe her opinion of you is the same! Perhaps, she should let everyone in the neighborhood know where you live! Maybe your children are obnoxious to her children at school, and maybe she has the health insurance on her family and that's why she works, maybe someone in her family is terminally ill, or maybe she's heard you bad mouthing her to other people! Regardless of the situation, you should have been less defamatory and certainly less specific, if your such a great person yourself, why would you do that to her children?
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Interesting, you sound like a moderator candy-o.
And it is true we all feel for the situation. But without all the info out there, both sides, there is a lot of one sided comments. In my area, we have our own RUDE NEIGHBOR who has a direct line to FWPD. It is terrible that we have to have to deal with these types of residents. Especially, as it seems in both cases, when it involves our children.
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Maybe her opinion of you is the same! Perhaps, she should let everyone in the neighborhood know where you live! Maybe your children are obnoxious to her children at school, and maybe she has the health insurance on her family and that's why she works, maybe someone in her family is terminally ill, or maybe she's heard you bad mouthing her to other people! Regardless of the situation, you should have been less defamatory and certainly less specific, if your such a great person yourself, why would you do that to her children?
That is fine if her opinion of me is the same everyone is entitled to their opinion. Mine is facts as well you can contact the police department because, it is public record and see the complaints filed. Yes, it is sad that her children have to be the ones to suffer but we have ALL attempted to continue letting the children play together. It's just that when she gets in her "mood" she has to start in on the parents then, we ask our kids to stop going over & playing because, they should not be subject to her attitude, foul mouth, and straight disrespect for other parents her kids unfortunately have no choice but to listen to her.
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I don't know who you are or where you live, nor is it your business whether she rents/owns someone pays property and school taxes on the house, and I think it's great if a Mother is able to stay home and raise her children, and if income allows I think it's great, I was merely trying to say there are usually 2 sides to every story, and for you to talk about offensive behavior, I think you could probably pick a "nicer" less hurtful word than "retarded" that is incredibly offensive to some, and I have pointed out before not a choice or a behavior, but something that is very difficult for families to live with, especially when people use it as a hurtful word! What was all that rhetorical nonsense about people being "banned from this forum" if the used hurtful, defamatory, abusive, blah, blah, blah. I personally don't think ANYONE NEEDS TO KNOW where EITHER of you live, and really no one knows what may be going on in her house, but you did hint in your last post that there is a "disability" in her home. |
I am not sure what you are referring to when you said "maybe she has the health insurance on her family and that's why she works" because she does not work she is a stay at home mom who needs to get a job & a life outside of her home so she can find herself & help make her children's life happy and filled with friends & joy despite the disability that the family faces. I do nothing but wish her well for her, her husband, and her 3 children I just want the rude, nosey, gossipy attitude to just stop I mean seriously what is the point?? Just to let you know I do not pretend to be a great person I am just a working mother who wants better for my children that is why I am BUYING my home in this community because I was under the impression it was a great neighborhood to live in when I first came and meet neighbors before I bought my house. If you feel the need to tell people who I am and where I live that also is your right so have at it. I am a firm believer people need to be informed about what goes on in the community because it's when people don't talk to each other that things happen unnoticed.
