People asking for ''support''
Ray-
I used to live in the University of Memphis area and was an active member of a church on Highland for many, many years.
Over those years I saw the same guys using the same ploy over and over again. Never did anyone say that they wanted money for a bottle - they always needed money for gas (even with prop gas can in hand) but if you offered to go with them to the gas station and pay to put gas in the can for them they would evaporate as quickly as the gasoline vapors.
Then there were the guys who were always trying to get to some city not too far away (Jackson, TN, Little Rock, etc.) to see their sick little girl/poor sick mother. If you offered to take them to the bus station and buy them a ticket they would always have some excuse as to why they could not go ''right now''. We were nice enough to invite a couple of these poor wayward souls to share in a fellowship meal at my former church - trying to be good Christians. They came in, they ate well, and on their way out they carried off a weed eater and a gasoline powered blower that belonged to the church. We found them at the pawn shop up the street the next day. Such thankful souls....
ALL of these guys would show up at the soup kitchen at St. Luke's Methodist every Saturday afternoon, week after week, year after year. They had no where to go, nothing to do. Panhandling and occasional petty theft had become their full-time job.
Call them mentally ill (some were), call them con men, but either way they are a scourge on the neighborhood and always playing a game to get money for something other than what they are asking for.
These folks have begun migrating east along Park Avenue and Poplar. In fact, I have now seen some of the Highland Street regulars wandering these streets in our neighborhood.
Mentally ill or not they are up to no good and we should be doing what we can to get them to move along - either back to where they came from or maybe on out to Germantown.
As for the next time this guy (or any of his fellow panhandlers) wanders through your neighborhood I suggest you tell him to wait on the stoop while you get some cash, make a quick call to the police, then go back and engage him in conversation long enough for the police to arrive. At the least they are breaking the law by begging door-to-door. More than likely, they are casing the neighborhood for a return visit.