Because offenders get their power through secrecy the single most effective means of protecting your child is communication with your child. They have to feel comfortable discussing sensitive matters with you. If they feel they can talk with you about their true feelings and that they will not be "put down" for it, then they will be more likely to tell you when they are put in an uncomfortable situation by a child molester. Also, children need to know that there are many adults who can help if they have a problem. The handout "Personal Safety for Children" and the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children pamphlet "Child Protection", give you excellent examples of basic safety rules for children. For a list of free child safety pamphlets, call the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, toll free (1-800-843-5678), or call your local sexual assault program, victim services agency, or social services agency.
Personal Safety for Children
Child Protection
National Center for Missing and Exploited Children