Why is it that people seem to be nit-picking and complaining so much? Is it just fun to stir the pot? Or are so many people just that nasty? Why not be constructive with criticisms instead of destructive? Why not offer up helpful hints or solutions instead of tearing down and ridiculing. And people shouldn't take things on here as personal attacks (if they aren't stated as a personal attack), or take things as though one person is being singled out, that's paranoia.

I just say, ''Why not focus on positive instead of the negative?'' Be helpful - not hurtful. Be part of the solution not part of the problem. Cuz its really hard to rock the boat when you are helping row.

By a complaint department

Things are....

what you make them. This site can be a lot of great things or people can ruin it. I've tried and tried to get more people to post positive things. I've tried to get more of the people who only read, and then complain about this site, to add something to make it better. All we can do is to keep trying and it will be what we all make it.

P.S. I don't mind the negative postings, as they can stir some thought to change. I don't even mind names being mentioned. I do not like or agree with personal attacks or name calling. That's the stuff that will damage this forum.

By Bill H.