Hey Shoafie,
I'm going to guess that the Coakley you knew was/is Carson. He is the one who would be blondish. Both of the Caokley boys would have been kinda chubby, Frank has "passed on" but I believe Carson is still around.
If you are checking the auditors site, 305 Dakota is the house I renovated in the late 70's....still looks OK. I was a mere child at the age of 26 when I started the whole process and have many fond memories of raising my family in that house and being a part of Gladden Community House.
It is very nice to hear from you and I hope all is well in your household.