Hey in the heavens does that mean you are religious, fly airplanes or are high? Dude or Dudette (whichever), if your spouse has a prob with email, create one of those free email accounts like yahoo and get your alerts there. BTW, are you saying your spouse wants to not know that some criminals are active in the community? Go figure.
So you posted some dumb stuff once or maybe even more; who cares. bring yourself up to speed and get over it.